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  • Still undecided

    I have been told by a fellow Xangan that I should not comment about my political views on other people’s sites but on my own blog. At first, I was a bit miffed by this, since the person telling me this (after she called me rude) informed everyone in her comment which candidate for whom she would be casting her vote while saying this. Then I decided that she is probably right about my commenting (but not the rude part) since I can get a bit verbose at times, not everyone wants to talk politics and we all will have our own ideas about what issues are most important and how best to address them…

    So, this will be a blog about politics, but I do not want to tell anyone how they should or shouldn’t vote. I am not even entirely sure how I will vote at this time, so you will not be told for whom you should vote here! I think Jim Wallis gives us some really good advice in his last Sojourners article:

    With two months to go, the questions will certainly be raised. The most important one that is emerging is which ticket will be most able to reach out to many people in the middle in both parties, and the all-important political independents. Facts will be important. Whose tax policies will most benefit low-income and middle-class families? Who has a plan to reverse the economic downturn? Who has the smartest strategy for countering the real threats of terrorism? And who has the best and most comprehensive response to the full range of moral issues that are of deep concern to people of faith?

    Now, all four of the political figures on their respective party tickets have been shown to have compelling personal stories. All four are “real people,” as the slogan goes. But this election must not just be about personalities, or inspiring personal histories; it must be about the issues, the records, the leadership, and the facts. May God help us to stay focused on that. Last week belonged to the Democrats, this week to the Republicans. Now, after the showy conventions of the past two weeks, the real work of this election can begin.

    I will share some of my own observations and concerns here and I also welcome any feedback that anyone who wishes to comment might have since there are so very few of us with the time to track down all the facts to debunk the myths, scare tactics, innuendo and rumors. I ask only that you keep it civil and keep it completely factual. No one should be frightened or intimidated into making his or her choice for any leadership position. Who even wants a bully for a leader? I believe that we each must look into our own lives, minds and hearts to make that decision and after we learn as much as we possibly can about what we each value most, then prayerfully consider which candidate might be the most capable champion of our causes.

    My life involves the food pantry at our church. Many of the concerns I have about the future of our country have been brought to my attention as I have worked there:

    I have seen such hurting inflicted on this great nation with the leadership we have had the last 8 years. Unemployment is over 6% now–the highest it has been for nearly a decade. The “business” at our own church food pantry has tripled in that time from 30 to 35 families to 90 to 100 families needing help every week. (And these families aren’t even “allowed” to come every week, so there are actually even more than this!) Our food sources are being threatened not by terrorists, but by the gutting of resources and regulations put in place to protect U.S.consumers in the name of “business and economic interests.” Recall notices from the food bank partner agency network fill my email box every week because food businesses can continue operations and distribution of tainted food supplies until they are inspected by our now overburdened FDA, then just issue recall notices when they finally get inspected and write off the cost of recalled food. The only ones that ever make the news are the ones where illness and/or death can be actually attributed to a specific food source, but trust me, there are many, many more…

    Outside of the church food pantry, I also worry about the welfare of our nation. Even though we enjoyed widespread support from many other nations after 9/11, the foreign policy choices that the current leadership has made since then have left us with very few other nations on “speaking” terms now,  If the all other ones we have angered decided to join forces & finish us off, we would probably be toast! I believe that the only reason we have not had to deal with that scenario is that most of the other nations seem even less desirous of peace then we are and thankfully, would not be able to work together against a common foe. From what I know so far, McCain intends to follow the same course regarding business interests and foreign policy…

    On the other side of the aisle, we have Obama, a very unknown quantity that has people so worried and nervous they are sending out emails & blogging about how we will be forced to burn our Bibles & be given copies of the Koran…

    I am still furious with Obama for being willing to forgive U.S. communications corporations for not standing up to our current government when they were asked to BREAK THE LAW and violate our civil liberties in the name of fighting terrorism. A law has very little “teeth” if it is not enforced! Either those corporations are accountable or our government needs to relinquish the power it has to force corporations to act in an unethical manner and neither of these issues have been addressed to my satisfaction…

    Obama’s acceptance speech did give me hope that many of the marginalized in our society could have a chance to actually live better lives. Before I worked in the food pantry, I used to think that people just needed to get a job and work their way up, but I have learned that there are some major roadblocks for many people along the way that are not always obvious to the outside observer. (Many at our own church, especially the well-to-do, still don’t really see any roadblocks.) No matter where you go, you find those folks that didn’t get the memo that you do have to put forth SOME effort, the world doesn’t owe you a living and if you need help you might not get just exactly what you want if you have to get it from someone else. Everyone likes to think those are the kind of folks that come to the pantry, but there are so many more that come willing to do what they can to try and help us in return for helping them. When they come, they ask to wash out the coffeepot, sweep the floor, lift the heavy boxes and that sort of thing, because they WANT to feel like they can provide for their families. I’ve even learned about some other not-so-obvious things like if you get your lights turned off because you cannot pay your bill, you have to not only be able to pay your bill but also additional money to get power restored. If you do not have the money to pay your bill, where do you get even MORE money to turn the lights back on? I’ve learned that if a child in one of these families gets sick or injured, they usually lose everything, since they rarely have jobs that offer any health benefits. We see many families come to the pantry after the father gets laid off from or injured on a job that is so dangerous and/or low-paying, there is no safety net for that family. Some turn to drugs and alcohol, draining the already meager family resources. Some women, faced with the daunting task of taking care of their families on their own, opt for abortion instead, which must break the heart of our God who finds every life so precious and valuable…

  • Thanks for sharing these words of wisdom, Sis!

    Tips for an Exceptional, Superb & a Powerful Life!

    1.) Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. And while you walk, smile. It is the ultimate antidepressant.

    2.) Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day. Buy a clock if you have to.

    3.) Always pray and make time to exercise.

    4.) Spend more time with people over the age of 70 and under the age of six.

    5.) Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less foods that are manufactured in plants.

    6.) Drink green tea and plenty of water. Eat broccoli, almonds & walnuts.

    7.) Try to make at least three people smile each day.

    8.) Clear your clutter from your house, car, desk, and let new and flowing energy into your life.

    9.) Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip, issues of the past, negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead, invest your energy in the positive present moment.

    10.) Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum, that appear and fade away like algebra class … but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.

    11.) Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a college kid with a maxed out charge card.

    12.) Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.

    13.) Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

    14.) Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

    15.) You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

    16.) Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.

    17.) Don’t compare your life to other’s. You have no Idea what their journey is all about.

    18.) Ladies – Go on and burn those “special” scented Candles, use the 600 thread count sheets, the good china and wear fancy lingerie now. Stop waiting for a special occasion. Every day is special.

    19.) No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

    20.) Frame every so-called disaster with these words: In five years, will this matter?

    21.) Forgive everyone for everything.

    22.) What other people think of you is none of your business.

    23.) Time heals almost everything. Give time, time!

    24.) However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

    25.) Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch with them.

    26.) Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.

    27.) Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.. God provides, remember?!

    28.) The best is yet to come. (In Heaven)

    29.) No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

    30.) Do the next right thing!

    31.) Call your family often.

    32.) Each night before you go to bed complete the following statements:

    I am thankful for __________.

    Today, I accomplished _________.

    33..) Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.

    34.) Enjoy the ride. Remember that this is not Disney World and you certainly don’t want a fast pass. You only have one ride through life so make the most of it and enjoy the ride.

    LIVE, LOVE, LAUGH. LIFE’S A PRESENT . . . UNWRAP IT!

    Have a blessed day. Keep Believing!

    More cool quotes:

    “Be kinder than necessary; for everyone you meet isfighting some kind of battle.”

    “The truest greatness lies in being kind, the truest wisdom in a happy mind.”

    “The secret to happiness is a Good Sense of Humor and a Bad Memory.”

    “Until you make peace with who you are, you’ll never be content with what you have.”

    Hummmm…..numbers 5, 8, 26 and 31 seem to be speaking directly to me right now! Are there any of these that you might “hear” calling to you?

  • Texas

    This little gem came from one of my buddies in YankeeLand who, as far a I know, has never been to Texas. She thought I would find it amusing. I did and now I am sharing it with all of you in hopes that you will also…. 

    Here is what Jeff Foxworthy has to say about folks from Texas…

    If someone in a Lowe’s store offers you assistance and they don’t work there, you may live in Texas; (I know this to be the truth!)

    If you’ve worn shorts and a parka at the same time, you may live in Texas;

    If you’ve had a lengthy telephone conversation with someone who dialed a wrong number, you may live in Texas; (guilty as charged!)

    If “Vacation” means going anywhere south of Dallas for the weekend, you may live in Texas;

    If you measure distance in hours, you may live in Texas; (or Michigan–they do it there, too!)

    If you know several people who have hit a deer more than once, you may live in Texas;

    If you install security lights on your house and garage, but leave both unlocked, you may live in Texas; (sad, but true)

    If you carry jumper cables in your car and your wife knows how to use them, you may live in Texas; (at one time I was a fairly good jumper-cabler)

    If the speed limit on the highway is 55 mph — you’re going 80 and everybody’s passing you, you may live in Texas; (not just yes, but H*LL, yes!)

    If you find 60 degrees “a little chilly,” you may live in Texas; (true for most of the natives)

    If you actually understand these jokes, and share them with all your Texas friends, you definitely live in Texas.

    Need to be cheered up?

    Happy, Texas 79042

    Pep, Texas 79353

    Smiley, Texas 78159

    Paradise, Texas 76073

    Rainbow, Texas 76077

    Sweet Home, Texas 77987

    Comfort, Texas 78013 (one of my best friend’s home town)

    Friendship, Texas 76530

    Love the Sun?

    Sun City, Texas 78628 (some of our friends live here now)

    Sunrise, Texas 76661

    Sunset, Texas 76270

    Sundown, Texas 79372

    Sunray, Texas 79086

    Sunny Side, Texas 77423

    Want something to eat?

    Bacon, Texas 76301

    Noodle, Texas 79536

    Oatmeal, Texas 78605

    Turkey, Texas 79261

    Trout, Te xas 75789

    Sugar Land, Texas 77479 (Donkey’s sister lives close to here)

    Salty, Texas 76567

    Rice, Texas 75155

    And top it off with:

    Sweetwater, Texas 79556

    Why travel to other cities? Texas has them all!

    Detroit, Texas 75436

    Colorado City, Texas 79512

    Cleveland, Texas 77327

    Dayton, Texas 77535

    Denver City, Texas 79323

    Klondike, Texas 75448

    Nevada, Texas 75173

    Memphis, Texas 79245

    Miami, Texas 79059

    Boston, Texas 75570

    Santa Fe, Texas 77517

    Tennessee Colony, Texas 75861

    Reno, Texas 75462

    Feel like traveling outside the country? Don’t bother buying a plane ticket!

    Athens, Texas 75751

    Canadian, Texas 79014

    China, Texas 77613

    Egypt, Texas 77436

    Ireland, Texas 76538

    Turkey, Texas 79261

    London, Texas 76854

    New London, Texas 75682

    Paris, Texas 75460 (worked with a guy from here quite a while ago)

    No need to travel to Washington D.C.

    Whitehouse, Texas 75791

    We even have a city named after our planet!

    Earth, Texas 79031

    And a city named after our State!

    Texas City, Texas 77590 (Drove by on daily commute for more than a year)

    Exhausted?

    Energy, Texas 76452

    Cold?

    Blanket, Texas 76432

    Winters, Texas

    Like to read about History?

    Santa Anna, Texas

    Goliad, Texas

    Alamo, Texas

    Gun Barrel City, Texas

    Robert Lee, Texas

    Need Office Supplies?

    Staples, Texas 78670

    Men are from Mars, women are from Venus, Texas 76084

    You guessed it..it’s on the state line..

    Texline, Texas 79087

    For the kids…

    Kermit, Texas 79745

    Elmo, Texas 75118

    Nemo, Texas 76070

    Tarzan, Texas 79783

    Winnie, Texas 77665

    Sylvester, Texas 79560

    Other city names in Texas , to make you smile…..

    Frognot, Texas 75424

    Bigfoot, Texas 78005

    Hogeye, Texas 75423

    Cactus, Texas 79013

    Notrees, Texas 79759

    Best, Texas 76932

    Veribest, Texas 76886

    Kickapoo, Texas 75763

    Dime Box, Texas 77853 (Driven through here before, too)

    Old Dime Box, Texas 77853

    Telephone, Texas 75488

    Telegraph, Texas 76883

    Whiteface, Texas 79379

    Twitty, Texas 79079

    And last but not least, the Anti-Al Gore City

    Kilgore, Texas 75662

    And our favorites…

    Cut n Shoot, Texas

    Gun Barrell City, Texas

    Hoop And Holler, Texas

    Ding Dong, Texas (Someone we know might just feel right at home here!) and, of course,

    Muleshoe, Texas

    Here are some little known, very interesting facts about Texas .

    1. Beaumont to El Paso: 742 miles

    2. Beaumont to Chicago: 770 miles

    3. El Paso is closer to California than to Dallas.

    4. World’s first rodeo was in Pecos, July 4, 1883.

    5. The Flagship Hotel in Galveston is the only hotel in North America built over water. (Drove by this on my way to work, too.)

    6. The Heisman Trophy ws named after John William Heisman who was the first full-time coach at Rice University in Houston.

    7. Brazoria County has more species of birds than any other area in North America. (Donkey’s dad used to do a lot of birdwatching here.)

    8. Aransas Wildlife Refuge is the winter home of North America ‘s only remaining flock of whooping cranes. (Aransas, not Arkansas, is in Texas, too.)

    9. Jalapeno jelly originated in Lake Jackson in 1978. (Donkey’s family lived in LJ during that time.)

    10. The worst natural disaster in U.S. history was in 1900, caused by a hurricane, in which over 8,000 lives were lost on Galveston Island. (That is why Galveston has a seawall today!)

    11. The first word spoken from the moon, July 20, 1969, was “Houston.”

    12. King Ranch in South Texas is larger than Rhode Island. (Drove by it, but did not have time to stop. Had to get to son’s jazz competition.)

    13. Tropical Storm Claudette brought a U.S. rainfall record of 43″ in 24 hours in and around Alvin in July of 1979. (Donkey, his family & I all lived through that. Alvin is only a few miles from LJ & the little town where I was living at the time.)

    14. Texas is the only state to enter the U.S. by TREATY, (known as the Constitution of 1845 by the Republic of Texas to enter the Union) instead of by annexation. This allows the Texas Flag to fly at the same height as the U.S. Flag, and may divide into 5 states.

    15. A Live Oak tree near Fulton is estimated to be 1500 years old. (The one in our yard estimated to be several hundred years old is just a baby compared to this one!)

    16. Caddo Lake is the only natural lake in the state.

    17. Dr Pepper was invented in Waco in 1885. There is no period in Dr Pepper.

    18. Texas has had six capital cities: Washington -on- the Brazos, Harrisburg, Galveston, Velasco, West Columbia and Austin. (We lived in Galveston before moving to Austin.)

    19. The Capitol Dome in Austin is the only dome in the U.S. which is taller than the Capitol Building in Washington DC (by 7 feet).

    20. The name “Texas” comes from the Hasini Indian word “tejas” meaning friends. Tejas is not Spanish for Texas.

    21. The State Mascot is the Armadillo An interesting bit of trivia about the armadillo is they always have four babies. They have one egg, which splits into four, and they either have four males or four females. (They also like to dig holes in your yard.) 

    22. The first domed stadium in the U.S. was the Astrodome in Houston. (Went to a rodeo there years ago.)

    Cowboy’s Ten Commandments posted on the wall at Cross Trails Church in Fairlie, Texas:

    (1) Just one God.

    (2) Honor yer Ma & Pa.

    (3) No telling tales or gossipin’.

    (4) Git yourself to Sunday meeting.

    (5) Put nothin’ before God.

    (6) No foolin’ around with another fellow’s gal.

    (7) No killin’.

    (8) Watch yer mouth.

    (9) Don’t take what ain’t yers.

    (10) Don’t be hankerin’ for yer buddy’s stuff

    Now that’s kinda plain an’ simple don’tcha think?

  • Yesterday

    Many of you already know that our church runs a food pantry on Tudesday mornings right next to the University of Texas campus and I am usually involved in it up to my neck. Parking is at a premium around the campus area, so we have this deal with the UT Coop book store that works pretty well for each of us since our peak usage times rarely occur at the same time. We have learned the hard way not to schedule any Saturday activities on UT home game days…

    Well, yesterday, I parked on the 4th level (which is normally deserted) because that is what church volunteers have been instructed to do during the week, it just it’s a whole lot faster than searching for surface parking and there’s an elevator if I feel lazy, loaded down with stuff or it’s too hot to take the stairs. We had more than 100 families come for food (almost a record for us, but not quite) and did not get finished giving out food until nearly 1:00 pm. With the Labor Day holiday next week (Where DID the summer go????) on Monday when we usually get canned goods and do a lot of the set up work we had to plan ahead and get extra food that had to remain stored elsewhere until after we finished that morning so it would not be given out by mistake or by a soft hearted volunteer that might not be mean enough to say no when asked. (This, too I have learned the hard way.) Anyway, it took a bit longer than usual and I didn’t finish working until almost 4:00pm before everything was shut down properly for other activities to commence in that same area of the church later this week. I figured I had better hustle out of there so I wouldn’t get stuck in rush hour traffic on the freeway…

    The parking lot guy at the gate even said something to me the day before as I scanned my pass, but I still was not prepared for the impact first day of classes for UT would have on me. The line to get OUT of the parking garage was backed up past my spot on the 4th level! I took this opportunity to pass out some business cards as I walked the line back to see how far it went and get a sense of the speed it was moving. I never did find the end before I ran out of cards and nearly gagged on exhaust fumes, so I figured I would just take the flattened cardboard boxes I had hauled up in the elevator to drop in the recycle dumpster behind the parking garage on my way home right back down on foot and by then the line would be shorter so I could be on my way…

    I got back to my car and even started it, though the line was still past my spot, figuring someone would let me in. (Ohhh, that a/c sure felt good after hauling those boxes around in the heat of the day!) Well maybe there was someone there who might have eventually let me out and maybe they just didn’t even know I was there on the other side of that corner, but I got tired of waiting after about five minutes, so I decided to head over the the campus area, pass out the remaining business cards I found in my car, find somewhere to get a cold drink and maybe a bite to eat, too since I had been looking at food all day but had not eaten lunch yet…

    On the way over the the campus area, there is a vendor market area and I stopped to chat with a guy who was selling these lovely earrings with a Celtic theme to them. I complemented him on his work and I could see the question on his face that he knew better to ask (Well, I do look a bit older than the typical college student.) so I told him about our food pantry and my parking garage situation. It turns out that he had been a vendor for quite some time in that spot and has a lot of concern for the street kids that usually end up being exploited by the drug dealers in that area. This is also a concern of our Micah 6 coalition of university area churches, so I found his insights very valuable. He was also just as bad (possibly even worse) at sticking to the subject as I am, so we talked until my legs and feet sent me the signal that if I didn’t sit down soon, I might be paying for it dearly later on. By this time, I figured I could go get my car and munch on my emergency snack bar since I would have plenty of time to sit and rest while waiting in the traffic on the way home, thus saving the money I would no doubt pay for overpriced food on campus…

    As I climbed the stairs to my parking space, I am STILL seeing cars backed up on the first few levels in the garage, so I did a U-turn on the stairwell and headed back to campus for the cold drink & bite to eat I promised myself earlier. Surprisingly, the food places weren’t that crowded. (I guess they were either anxious to try that dorm food or perhaps still in line to buy books and/or get out of the parking garage.) I met two very sweet young ladies working at the Chipotle where I had my salad and gave them each lip gloss samples before I left to take another shot at getting out of the parking garage…

    By now, it is past 6:00pm and I am encouraged as I see NO LINE while ascending the stairs. WooHOO!!! I make my way to the bottom gate, but with many of the incoming drivers who haven’t yet realized this is a two way driveway, I have to take the last corner so tightly that my arm isn’t long enough to swipe my pass at the gate. I ask the attendant to do this for me please and he groused at me for cluttering up the garage with church people earlier in the day…

  • Courage

    Another gem I would like to share from one of my MK galpals:

    Do you know the legend of the Cherokee Indian youth’s rite of passage?

    His father takes him into the forest, blindfolds him and leaves him alone. He is required to sit on a stump the whole night and not remove the blindfold until the rays of the morning sun shine through it. He cannot cry out for help to anyone. Once he survives the night, he is a MAN. He cannot tell the other boys of this experience because each lad must come into manhood on his own. The boy is naturally terrified. He can hear all kinds of noises. Wild beasts must surely be all around him. Maybe even some human might do him harm. The wind blew the grass and earth, and shook his stump, but he sat stoically, never removing the blindfold. It would be the only way he could become a man! Finally, after a horrific night, the sun appeared and he removed his blindfold. It was then that he discovered his father sitting on the stump next to him. He had been at watch the entire night, protecting his son from harm.

    We, too, are never alone. Even when we don’t know it, our Heavenly Father is watching over us, sitting on the stump beside us. When trouble comes, all we have to do is reach out to Him.

    Moral of the Story:

    Just because you can’t see God, doesn’t mean God is not there.

    “For we walk by faith, not by sight.”

    ~ 2 Corinthians 5:7 ~

    If you liked this story, please share it.

    If not, perhaps you took off your blindfold before dawn.

    Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, “l’ll try again tomorrow.”

  • More Blessings

    There may be some slight adjustments to this data in the last two years, but I believe this model is still fairly accurate.

    Earth Status report – 2006

    If the population of the Earth was reduced to that of a small town with 100 people, it would look something like this:

    57% Asians

    21% Europeans

    14% Americans (northern and southern)

    8% Africans

     

    52% women

    48% men

     

    70% coloured-skins

    30% caucasians

     

    89% heterosexuals

    11% homosexuals

     

    6 people would own 59% of the whole world wealth and ALL of them will be from the United States of America

    80% would have bad living conditions

    70% would be uneducated

    50% underfed

    1 would die

    2 would be born

    1 would have a computer

    1 (only one) will have higher education

    When you look at the world from this point of view, you can see there is a real need for solidarity, understanding, patience and education.

    Also think about the following -

    • This morning, if you woke up healthy, then you are happier than the 1 million people that will not survive next week.
    • If you never suffered a war, the loneliness of the jail cell, the agony of torture, or hunger, you are happier than 500 million people in the world.
    • If you can enter into a church (mosque) without fear of jail or death, you are happier then 3 million people in the world.
    • If there is a food in your fridge, you have shoes and clothes, you have bed and a roof, you are richer then 75% of the people in the world.
    • If you have bank account, money in your wallet and some coins in the money-box, you belong to the 8% of the people on the world, who are well-to-do.

    If you read this you are also three times blessed because:

    1. You found xanga.

    2 . You don’t belong to the 200 million people that cannot read.

    3 . And… you have a computer!

    Another favorite of mine:

    “Work as if you don’t need money, love as if you’ve never been hurt, dance, as if nobody can see you, sing, as if no one can hear, live, as if the Earth was a heaven.”

    Finally, I would like to share another blessing from Anam Cara:

    May the light of your soul guide you.

    May the light of your soul bless the work you do with the secret love and warmth of your heart.

    May you see in what you do the beauty of your own soul.

    May the sacredness of your work bring healing, light and renewal to those who work with you and to those who see and receive your work.

    May your work never weary you.

    May it release within you wellsprings of refreshment, inspiration and excitement.

    May you be present in what you do.

    I also feel blessed to play a part in making sure that 95 families struggling to make ends meet here in Austin, Texas will have a bit more to eat for at least this week…

    Grace, peace and blessings to all of YOU, too!

  • I double-dog dare you!!!!

    This is for your entire life! (Stolen from Kathi) Copy this & post your answers:

    (x) Gone on a blind date? He was actually BLIND, too. We saw (well, he mainly just heard)  Three Dog Night at a concert

    (x) Skipped school? Senior Skip day–we went to the beach, also the odd day now & then in college when things got a bit stacked up

    ( ) Watched someone die?

    (x) Been to Canada? Once when our family decided to drive around Lake Erie while on vacation 

    ( ) Been to Mexico?

    (x) Been on a plane? A few times. Not so much since 9/11

    (x) Been lost? Many times in many ways…

    (x) Been on the opposite side of the country? From the east coast to Califunky–that just about covers it!

    ( ) Been to Washington , DC?

    (x) Swam in the ocean? Atlantic while living on the east coast, Gulf of Mexico while living in Galveston, TX

    (x) Cried yourself to sleep? Not in quite a while, but only by the grace of God

    ( ) Played cops and robbers?

    (x ) Recently colored with crayons? You don’t know what you’re missing when you don’t play with the kiddie toys at a restaurant and/or in church once in a while

    ( ) Sang Karaoke?

    (x) Paid for a meal with coins only? Not in quite a while, but only by the grace of God

    (x) Done something you told yourself you wouldn’t? Yup. It usually involves food…

    (x) Made prank phone calls? Not in a VERY long time. What do kids do these days for laughs now that we all have caller ID?

    (x) Laughed until some kind of beverage came out of your nose? Guilty as charged

    (x) Caught a snowflake on your tongue? Not in a while and not sure I would these days with all of the acid rain/snow & pollution!

    ( x) Danced in the rain? Oh, yes. I would LOVE to do it again soon. Everything here is so dry, it crunches when you step on it

    (x) Written a letter to Santa Claus? Not in a VERY long time!

    (x) Been kissed under the mistletoe?

    (x) Watched the sunrise with someone you care about? Not in a VERY long time.

    (x) Blown bubbles? Oh, yes–it’s almost as much fun as launching rubber bands!

    (x) Gone ice skating? Not in a VERY long time.

    (x) Been skinny-dipping outdoors?

    (x) Gone to the movies? Not in a VERY long time.

    (x ) Gotten a speeding ticket? Only once & not in a VERY long time. My speedometer really WAS broken!

    1. Any nickname? Flash & Pooh (don’t ask)

    2. Favorite drink? Tie between spiced apple cider & smoothies

    3. Mother’s name? Ramona May, but don’t call her that unless you want her to hate you

    4. Tattoo? No

    5. Body Piercing? Just earlobes

    6. How much do you love your job? I LOVE playing with makeup & meeting new people! My previous professional life in engineering was a blast, too, but for different reasons.

    7. Birthplace? Midland, Michigan 

    8. Favorite vacation spot? Three way tie between, family in YankeeLand, Disney World & camping

    9. Ever been to Africa? No & unlikely that will change

    10. Ever eaten cookies for dinner? Affirmative. They were just as tasty for breakfast or lunch, too!

    11. Ever been on TV? Yes. I was “featured” in one of those consumer advocacy segments during our local news after the dealership that sold us a car with free oil changes for as long as we owned it changed their policy.

    12. Ever steal any traffic sign? Um…I was with some people that did this. Would this be that guilt by association my mother was always warning me about? 

    13. Ever been in a car accident? Yes, my first date ended abruptly because of one. I was in two more less than 30 days apart from each other a little over a decade ago. I was not the driver in any of them but the last one (a head on) but that one was the other guy’s fault.

    14. Drive a 2-door or 4-door vehicle? A 4-door Toyota Camry–just until the pink Cadillac is ready!

    15. Favorite salad dressing? My homemade mayo-free slaw dressing with celery seeds in it

    16. Favorite pie? Narrowed down to: Chocolate toll house, Rhubarb custard, or my Aunt Betty’s Strawberry pie

    17. Favorite number? Number 13 usually brings me luck

    18 Favorite Movie? Please don’t make me pick just one!

    19. Favorite holiday? They’re all nice. Thanksgiving, maybe?

    20. Favorite dessert? Anything really decadent involving chocolate, caramel & nuts

    21. Favorite food? Please don’t make me pick just one!

    22. Favorite day of the week? Sunday – hubby & both offspring usually have the day off and church is usually just what I need after the week is done!

    23. Favorite brand of body wash? Mary Kay, of course!

    24. Favorite toothpaste? I like wintergreen flavor the best. Usually I get one of those health food-type brands that don’t have any artificial sweeteners (Those things SCARE me!!!! I don’t have that many brain cells and/or hormones to spare!) in it.

    25. Favorite smells? Fresh washed bed & bath linens–especially with my lavender scented laundry soap, stew or soup that has been simmering, fresh baked bread or other bakery items, that “earthy” smell when you play in the dirt (aka gardening if one knows what they are doing while doing it) & several fragrances by Mary Kay

    26. What do you do to relax? I like to play computer games, read, listen to music & ”xanga” 

    27. Coke or Pepsi? Neither works for me. The phosphoric acid in them eats at my insides & my teeth

    28. How do you see yourself in 10 years? We will have the mortgage just about paid off, our offsrping may have provided us with a grandkid or two by then & hopefully we will be able to implement our retirement plans

    29. Furthest place you will send this message? Who knows? I sure don’t!

    30. Who will respond the fastest? Who knows? I sure don’t!

    31. Who won’t bother to respond? Who knows? I sure don’t!

    Comment, por favor, even if it’s just to tell me how silly this is!

  • Details from Dallas trip last month

    EARLY in the morning, we started out to Dallas for Mary Kay seminar. One of the first things we did once we finally got there (when you have a car full of ladies that feel compelled to start their day with Starbucks, frequent stops are required) we toured the manufacturing plant. If you look in the round mirror, you might be able to see the tubes of foundation being crimped:

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    We did not have any other scheduled events until that evening when we had our unit awards dinner at Javier’s restaurant. I was crowned queen of sales!

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    Some of my favorite people in the unit also got awards:

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    It had been a long day with all the travel and touring. By the end of the awards dinner, we were all getting a little silly…

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    The next day, we were ready to attend our general session meeting–after breakfast of course!

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    That evening was our area awards dinner.

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    I was number 8 in our national area for sales and our director won Miss Go-Give, which is the highest honor in Mary Kay!

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    The next day, we had classes to attend. Between classes, we got our picture taken in the pink Cadillac that our director has picked out. I am in the back seat holding the sign:

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    That night was the big awards ceremony for all of the nationals areas. We got to go in style! It was a bit breezy when this picture was taken, so my hair is covering my face, but my dress is not covering my leg very well:

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    The two silly girls next to me were trying to hook our director up with the limo driver! He WAS awfully cute and she IS single…

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    Here we are just before the awards night started. Silly slit on my dress is still showing a lot of leg and there certainly wasn’t a breeze in the convention center…

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    After closing session the next morning, we headed back to Austin. I had a blast riding with my other three MK galpals and sharing a hotel room with them, too. Sometimes, thing got really crazy and/or silly. My sides hurt afterwards from all the laughing we did together!

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    Everything else that happened is TOP SECRET. My MK glapals and I made a pact. What happens at seminar, stays at seminar…

  • Lately, it seems like all I have been doing is saying goodbye…

    Today our church office manager attended her father’s memorial service in another state.  Our prayers went with her…

    On Thursday, I have been asked to say a few words at a service for a longtime member of our church who died last week. Unless any of you have some suggestions, this is what I plan to say:

    Penny loved the psalms. My favorite time to hear her quoting them from memory (which always did impress me) was as we descended from the flyover onto the freeway to attend Tuesday evening Bible study. Psalm 19 was the perfect “caption” for the breathtaking sunsets we would see against the Austin skyline:

    1The heavens declare the glory of God; and the firmament showeth His handiwork.

     2Day upon day uttereth speech, and night upon night showeth knowledge.

      

     3There is no speech nor language where their voice is not heard.

      

     4Their sound has gone forth through all the earth, and their words to the end of the world. In them hath He set a tabernacle for the sun,

      

     5which is as a bridegroom coming out of his chamber, and rejoiceth as a strong man to run a race.

      

     6His going forth is from the end of the heaven, and his circuit unto the ends of it; and there is nothing hid from the heat thereof.

      

     7The law of the LORD is perfect, converting the soul; the testimony of the LORD is sure, making wise the simple.

      

     8The statutes of the LORD are right, rejoicing the heart; the commandment of the LORD is pure, enlightening the eyes.

      

     9The fear of the LORD is clean, enduring for ever; the judgments of the LORD are true and righteous altogether.

      

     10More to be desired are they than gold, yea, than much fine gold; sweeter also than honey and the honeycomb.

      

     11Moreover by them is Thy servant warned, and in keeping of them there is great reward.

      

     12Who can understand his errors? Cleanse Thou me from secret faults.

      

     13Keep back Thy servant also from presumptuous sins; let them not have dominion over me. Then shall I be upright, and I shall be innocent of the great transgression.

      

     14Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in Thy sight, O LORD, my Strength and my Redeemer.

     

    As I was printing out these words, I decided to check my email and discovered that the mother of one of my best friends just passed away, too.

     

    Enough already! How about some hellos for a change?

  • I have pictures from Dallas waiting to be shared, but (in my usual fashion) I am going down a “rabbit trail” first. Tricia’s post from Saturday, August 2nd brought to mind an excellent sermon our pastor shared with us a few weeks ago after his return from Turkey while attending a seminar on religious diversity and tolerance with his wife. I copied the entire thing, with intentions to edit out parts that may not be relevant, but I could find none of those, so here is the entire thing:

     “The Poetry of Call: Abraham, the Father of Us All” 

    Genesis 12:1-4

    Last week during our trip to Turkey, Jan and I stepped out of a Volkswagen bus onto the ancient soil of Harran.  This is the very place where Abraham heard God’s call and received God’s promise to bring a blessing to all the nations.  Harran is located in a hot, barren landscape in what, today, is southeast Turkey, just a few miles from the Syrian border. We found ourselves standing in front of adobe beehive-shaped homes that have remained essentially unchanged for three thousand years. Looking down the hill, we could see the remains of an Assyrian university, where studies in astronomy, philosophy, natural sciences and medicine once flourished. We climbed to the top of the hill in Harran and explored the ruins of what was once a three-story domed facility that served multiple functions. In biblical times, caravans regularly passed through Harran, which was strategically located on a busy trade route. Our guide pointed to three rooms standing side by side and told us that, in the early centuries after Christ, one room served as a Christian chapel, one a synagogue and the third a mosque. This meant that travelers stopping over in Harran had a place to worship whether they were Christian, Muslim or Jew.  

    Can you picture that?  Two thousand years ago, Jews, Christians, and Muslims traveled together in one caravan, and worshipped side by side. As I stood in that spot, I was seized with the realization that Judaism, Christianity and Islam began in the same place, sprang from the life of the same person and are heirs to the same promise. Jews, you recall, identify Abraham as their founding father. Christians trace the lineage of Jesus back to Abraham, whom the Apostle Paul calls “the father of our faith.” Muslims revere Abraham as a friend of God, a father of the prophets, and an ancestor of Mohammed.  So this morning as we ponder how to understand God’s call to us today, consider this possibility:  We, the children of Abraham–Jews, Christians and Muslims—are called by God to overcome our fears of one another and to caravan together towards the blessing of peace that God has promised to all the families of the earth.

    But first let’s look at the call of Abraham, the father of us all.  We read this morning how God called Abraham to leave Harran, his kindred, his home, and go to a land where God would make of Abraham a great nation and through him bring a blessing to all the families of the earth.  Everything about God’s call to Abraham is counterintuitive, unlikely and full of risk. No guarantees are given, no map provided, no destination assured—just a command to leave the familiar and venture into the unknown, trusting in a promise that that must have seemed, to Abraham—and perhaps seems to us today—an impossible dream.  

    This summer I discovered the poetry of Father Kilian McDonnell.  His poetry is raw, gritty and imaginative. In his poem, titled “The Call of Abraham,” McDonnell portrays Abraham wrestling with God’s call, rebeling against the unlikely nature of it—yet obeying it nonetheless.  Abraham declares to God:

                    At seventy-five,

                    am I supposed to scuttle my life,

                    take that ancient wasteland, Sarai,

                    place my arthritic bones

                    upon the road

                    to some mumbled nowhere?

     

                    Let me get this straight.

                    I will be brief.

                    I summarize.

                   

                    In ten generations since the Flood,

                    You have spoken to no one.

                    Now, like thunder on a clear day,

                    You give commands:

                    Pull up my tent,

                    desert the graves of my ancestors,

                    leave Harran

                    for a country you do not name,

                    there to be a stranger.

     

                    God of the wilderness,

                    From two desiccated lumps,

                    from two parched prunes,

                    You promise all the peoples of the earth

                    will be blessed in me.

     

                    You come late, Lord, very late,

                    but my camels leave in the morning.

    There you have it.  Without any certainty, and fully aware of the risks, Abraham nevertheless leaves behind all he knows, goes in obedience to this larger vision that God has set before him—a blessing to all the families of the earth.

    And we, who are the children of Abraham—Jews, Christians and Muslims—are similarly called to leave behind our narrow-minded, parochial vision that pits us against one another and makes us strangers to one another. We may be three separate Faiths, but we have the same call to embrace God’s universal blessing for all peoples everywhere. Yes, there are Muslims who have perverted Islam and who are a threat to the very promise of peace that is Islam’s foundation. Actually, throughout history, all our faith traditions have been subject to gross distortion and terrible misuse. Sadly, the examples are too many to name.  Yet our calling today is for the children of Abraham once again to caravan together, because we are called to a common destination.  I’m not suggesting we lose our respective religious identities.  I certainly don’t want us to sink to spouting banalities such as reflected in the comment, “Well, all religions believe the same thing.” Truth is, there are significant differences, and our differences are as important as the similarities. Yet by caravanning together, we create space for honest conversation and personal interaction. Such dialogue can enrich, rather than threaten, our own faith. 

    I found this to be the case as we traveled in Turkey last week.  When I heard the Muslim call to prayer five times each day, I was prompted to reflect on my own prayer life:  What calls me to prayer as a Christian? How are my prayers similar, and how different, from those of practicing Muslims?  In Turkey we were the recipients of the overwhelming generosity, hospitality, and good deeds of our Muslim hosts. “You honor us with your presence,” said one, “and we bless one another through our sharing together.”  Of course, good deeds are also central to Christians. Our motivation for good deeds, however, may differ. We Christians tell a story about how God has come to us in the person of Jesus, loved us and saved us quite apart from our own righteousness. Thus, for us, good deeds flow as a response to God’s grace.  I’m suggesting that we compare notes, and learn from one another without insisting that the other become like us.

    I know that many Christians will disagree with what I’ve said this morning.  Many will decline to come along on a journey that joins Christians with Jews and Muslims. But, friends, that’s their loss.  Metaphorically speaking, we all need to go back to Harran, there to remember that we all began in the same place, and we have the same spiritual father in Abraham. As everyone knows, people who have the same father are brothers and sisters to one another.  Perhaps the crux of God’s call to us today is to embrace God’s larger family, leave behind our fears of one another, and journey together in faith toward God’s promised blessing—a blessing of peace to all the families of the earth.