December 10, 2009

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  With our daughter’s wedding only days away, wrapping up long-awaited home repair projects, things going looney tunes at work for Donkey, getting ready for another surgery next week and being in the retail biz this time of year, things are getting a bit crazy-busy around here, I must continue to rely on my email buddies for material to post. This one arrived today and it was too good not to share:

  Burned Biscuits

  When I was a little boy, my mom liked to make breakfast food for dinner every now and then. And I remember one night in particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work. On that evening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage and extremely burned biscuits in front of my dad. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet all my dad did was reach for his biscuit, smile at my mom and ask me how my day was at school. I don’t remember what I told him that night, but I do remember watching him smear butter and jelly on that biscuit and eat every bite!

  When I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my mom apologize to my dad for burning the biscuits. And I’ll never forget what he said: “Baby, I love burned biscuits.”

  Later that night, I went to hug Daddy good night and I asked him if he really liked his biscuits burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, “Your Momma put in a hard day at work today and she’s real tired. And besides — a little burnt biscuit never hurt anyone!”

  You know, life is full of imperfect things…..and imperfect people…and I’m sure not the best at much. What I’ve learned over the years is that learning to accept each other’s faults — and choosing to celebrate each other’s differences. — is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.

  And that’s my prayer for you today. That you will learn to take the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your life and lay them at the feet of God. Because in the end, He’s the only One who will be able to give you a relationship where a burnt biscuit isn’t a deal-breaker! We could extend this to any relationship in fact — as understanding is the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife, sibling to sibling, parent-child or friendship, in business or otherwise!

  “Don’t put the key to your happiness in someone else’s pocket — keep it in your own.”

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